The sex toy space has boomed in recent years, with so many people shaking off the stigma of sex and putting their sexual wellness first.
From concealable teenie tiny vibrators to powerhouses that will have the ground shaking, there are plenty of choices to suit all tastes, bodies, and genders!
With so many tools on the market to enhance your sex life and keep your toes curled it can be difficult to know where to start. Get an idea of what sex toys there are for couples before introducing a sex toy to your partner to spice up your sex life!
Remember the most important thing when choosing a couple’s sex toy is that your sexual needs will vary from other peoples, whether that’s from your partner (libido differences), your best friend, or your favorite porn star. We are all different. What one couple swears by might not have the same orgasmic results for you as a couple.
You can find our list of best sex toys for couples below:
Dual Stimulation Vibrators
Dual stimulation vibrators are pretty fantastic with their most obvious benefit of stimulating multiple areas at the same time, which can provide numerous benefits for couples looking to increase sensation and pleasure.
These vibrators can be used externally on the clitoris or penis, but also internally in the vagina or anus - or both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. All those nerve endings are rather responsive - whether they are deep, buzzy, or rumbly vibrations they are sure to leave you and your partner satisfied.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Dual Stimulation Vibrator
Turn every moment into a new experience with the award-winning, bendable vibrator Crescendo 2. This is the one vibrator you won't get bored of! With the ability to bend and target the G-spot and clitoris across 6 powerful motors, level up her pleasure with blended orgasms. Or control your partner's pleasure remotely with the smart app that allows for live control of vibes, patterns, and each of the 6 independent motors in real time that will leave them quivering with pleasure. This vibrator is perfect for those wanting to explore new erogenous zones, different combinations, sensations, and what works for them - whether that’s clitoral stimulation, G-spot or a combination of the two.
Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators can initially seem a little daunting with their large exterior, but they dominate the sex toy market for a very good reason. They hit you with strong, powerful vibrations - perfect for individuals who prefer intense stimulation to get them climaxing.
Wands are perfect for outer clitoral stimulation and intense teasing all over your body, by your partner. The head of the wand can bend with your body’s natural contours and make it easy to maneuver all over your body - for a strong but sensual full body massage.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Wand Vibrator
Hitachi Rechargeable Magic Wand
With multiple pre-set vibration modes, this was the original cult-favorite when it launched in the ’70s as a massager. It has had some updates since then, such as becoming both rechargeable and cordless, yet it still remains a fan fave.
G-Spot Vibrators
The purpose of this vibrator is all in the name! A G-spot vibrator is specifically designed to stimulate the internal erogenous zone in the vagina known as the G-spot (and yes, the G-spot does exist). Since the G-spot is situated at an angle on the front wall of the vagina, these vibrators typically have a curved shape to effectively reach the G-spot. Think of the classic come-hither motion used with fingers to stimulate the G-spot—this vibrator works on the same principle.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: G-Spot Vibrators
If you're looking for the perfect G-spot vibrator, look no further than MysteryVibe's petite Poco. What makes Poco so perfect is that it's not only curved, but bendable to mimic the come-hither motion of a human finger and expertly arouse the G-spot. Its ability to bend alongside 2 powerful motors and its compact nature makes it easy to use and adaptable to different bodies and sex positions. Poco has a plethora of features such as smart app control (perfect for giving your partner control) and water resistance (so you're not restricted to the bedroom for pleasure).
Bullet Vibrators
A staple for anyone with a clitoris. Discreet, easy to use, with power-packed targeted vibrations to stimulate. User friendly and perfect for those entering the world of sex toys for the very first time!
Bullet vibrators are generally not designed for insertion but rather to target erogenous zones such as the clitoris, nipples, perineum and shaft of the penis to name a few. Bullet vibrators are great to use during sex to make those blended orgasms all the more intense and achievable!
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Bullet Vibrator
This bullet vibrator is perfectly discreet with the lipstick style and design, making the Mia-2 look at home in your purse. The sculpted tip provides pin-pointed pleasure for fast and intense climaxes.
Clit Suction Toys
Arguably the sex toy of 2020 - after this review went viral many have been desperate to test these fun clit suction toys to see if they really do cause out-of-body experiences. As the name suggests these are perfect for those who enjoy oral sex and the feel of a tongue licking, kissing and exploring your intimate bits.
The suction toy uses air pressure to create a pulsating effect, like a gentle sucking. Don’t be fooled - just because this suction toy doesn’t use vibrations does not mean you won’t be orgasming again and again. Many have reported orgasms arriving a lot quicker than a conventional vibrator and multiple orgasms in a single session have been found to be far more achievable. If you are someone whom struggles to orgasm during penetrative sex adding a clit suction toy into the mix could really help!
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Clit Suction
Rechargeable, waterproof and with 8 intensity settings, the Womanizer is the original clitoral suction vibrator, providing contactless clitoral stimulation to take your orgasm to the next level. The sex toy itself fits comfortably in your hand whilst delivering intense sensations that is quiet enough to use it even if you don’t have total privacy in your home.
Dildo
Most dildos sport a phallic-shaped look that are meant to simulate penetration with various lengths and girths. From the scary 3 foot tall ‘super dildos’ to the more realistic (and manageable) 6 inch-ers.
A traditional dildo does not vibrate - although depending on the model they may have an additional attachment if vibes are your weakness. They are great for penetration, vaginally and anally - perfect for those who enjoy a fuller feeling and climax from G-spot stimulation. To use this couple’s sex toy during sex - you could try dual penetration or enjoy some oral sex whilst the dildo is inside you.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Dildo
Using dual-density platinum silicone, they are a favorite brand amongst dildo connoisseurs. What’s more, you can add all the bells and whistles with the range of accessories on offer including harnesses, insertable vibes and love bumps.
Vibrating Cock Rings
There's cock rings, which are designed to simply restrict blood flow to the penis, allowing male partners to last longer in bed. And then there's the next step up - vibrating cock rings! These are the perfect sex toys for couples because they provide mutual pleasure in multiple ways. They enhance blood flow to the penis and clitoris, which improves arousal, and they restrict blood flow to the penis too, which means the male partner can last longer with stronger erections and close the orgasm gap!
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Vibrating Cock Rings
The world’s only wearable male vibrator that adapts to your penis, whatever your size is a game changer for couples pleasure. This revolutionary flexible vibrator has 4 powerful motors that send powerful vibrations to the penis, perineum, resulting in rock-hard erections. And the front 3 motors are also stimulate her clitoris and vulva at the same time! What's more is that Tenuto 2 is designed to sit snugly at the base of the penis to keep him harder for longer. Tenuto 2 is perfect for couples to use during enhance sensations during penetrative sex for equally earth-shattering orgasms for all involved. It can also be used to turbocharge a hand-job or oral sex during foreplay.
Butt Plug
Butt plugs are great for experimentation - regardless of sex. For people with prostates, it can also hit the P-spot producing pleasurable sensations, whilst for people with vulva's, they can stimulate the clitoris and G-spot whilst being penetrated vaginally. This can be perfect for those who enjoy a feeling of fullness anally and is a great place to start if you or your partner want to explore anal stimulation further.
Butt plugs come in all shapes, sizes and materials, it’s recommended to start with something small as you train your sphincter to increase its flexibility and always use plenty of water-based lube! All butt plugs have flared bases to keep the sex toy firmly anchored outside your body without the need for a harness - this avoids any horror story trips to the emergency room.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Butt Plugs
This set is perfect for anal beginners, with varying levels of vibrations and a remote control, this plug can kick your sex life up a notch as you incorporate this sex toy into penetrative and oral sex, for some mind-blowing sensations.
Rabbit Vibrator
Did you know most people can’t orgasm through penetration alone? By targeting multiple pleasure points with sensations such as vibrations or rotation, Rabbits are perfect for those who enjoy dual-stimulation. By combining an external vibrator with G-spot stimulation the end result is often an intense blended orgasm.
Rabbits combine vaginal penetration with clitoral stimulation, although this may be a sex toy better suited to solo-play you can still incorporate this sex toy into mutual masturbation or long distance sex.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Rabbit Vibrator
This luxurious rabbit vibrator offers dual stimulation in a smooth and flexible design to take pleasure to a whole new level.
Prostate Vibrator
The benefits of prostate massage (a.k.a the P-spot) are under appreciated and under utilized in its sourcing of male pleasure. Especially when paired with penis stimulation, prostate vibrators can feel otherworldly.
Prostate vibrators usually provide constant stimulation to the prostate through vibrations. Many prostate vibrators also offer targeted stimulation to the perineum (the skin between the testicles and anus), which vibrates against the prostate, making it possible to orgasm from the prostate stimulation indirectly. Now imagine pairing this with partnered sex such as oral, or penetration.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Prostate Vibrator
Molto is a game-changer for anal pleasure as the world's first ultra-slim, bendable anal vibrator. Its slim design is perfect for couples curious about anal play or prostate massage but wary of larger, girthier toys. Molto has 1 powerful motor can be bent to hit the P-spot, A-spot, or any other anal sweet spot. Just like the female G-spot, the "male G-spot," or prostate, is located at an angle inside the anus, so Molto can be adjusted to fit different anatomies and sex positions. Here's an idea: give your partner a full-body orgasm by riding his penis while controlling Molto's vibrations via the smart app to give him an intense prostate massage.
Vulva Vibrator
A vulva vibrator is designed to stimulate the vulva, which is the external part of a woman's genitals. This category of vibrator is relatively new since until recently the only part of the female pleasure anatomy that got attention was the clitoris. And while the clitoris is an popular female erogenous zone, it's not the only one. In fact, the entire vulva is teeming with sensitive nerve-endings ready to be stimulated. Vulva vibrators are designed to stimulate the entire vulva, which includes the labia and clitoris, giving couple's a completely new way to arouse each other and reach incredible orgasms with all-around vulva stimulation.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Vulva Vibrator
Legato is the first adaptable vibrating ring for women, and a unique take on external vulva stimulation. It's adaptable design allows it to mold to different vulva shapes and sizes. While it hugs the unique contours of each woman's vulva, 4 strategically placed motors that send gentle, dispersed vibrations that stimulate the entire perimeter of the vulva and labia. The all-around stimulation enhances blood flow, which increases arousal and lubrication. This external option of arousal is particularly beneficial for couples with a partner that's menopausal or just had a baby where penetration is painful or difficult. And, Legato can be used to provide continuous stimulation to the vulva during intercourse while a male partner penetrates through the large gap in the middle.
Anal Beads
Anal beads fall into the same ‘family’ as butt plugs and prostate massagers but are in fact very different, usually a string of spheres varying in size on a silicone wand. Perfect for novices and anal play connoisseurs alike, they are a staple within your collection whether you have prostate or not.
Unlike butt plugs, anal beads are not designed to stay put, but rather pleasure is gained from moving them in and out, stimulating various spots within the anal sphincter. Lube is necessary with any anal sex toys to avoid discomfort and tearing. So remember to lube up well with preferably a water-based lube such as COCONU lube.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Anal beads
With anal beads the simplicity of them is what works - so if you’re starting out this teasing string of 10 graduated anal beads with a safety handle at the end are perfect for exploring.
Love Eggs
Egg-shaped vibrators, also called C-shaped vibrators, designed to be worn internally, love eggs vary in shape and size but always vibrate. Perfect for the adventurous type, love eggs can be used for an outdoor adventure and thrill. Let your partner take control of your vibrations with the remote control and tease you all day long.
Designed for internal stimulation, love eggs stimulate the vaginal walls and a partner's penis during penetrative sex as you play with the vibration intensities and patterns. They can also be used externally on erogenous zones such as the clitoris and nipples.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Love Egg
Lovense Lush 3 Love Egg Vibrator
This C-shaped love egg is one of the quietest and most powerful on the market, perfect for long-distance relationships due to the smart app control. With a powerful Bluetooth remote control vibrator, this hands-free sex toy will tease you all day long - or as long as you can stand it.
Nipple Toys
Nipple toys can provide some pretty intense sensations if used correctly. With the possibility of reaching climax, we should be giving nipples far more attention. If a lick, kiss or suck sends shivers down your spine, nipple toys will take you all the way during your intimate moment.
Why not try nipple clamps to give you intense stimulation as you tread the line between pleasure and pain. There are plenty of types of nipple toys to try out during foreplay and sex for extra sensations.
Best Sex Toy For Couples: Nipple Toys
Tiered Intimate Rose Gold Nipple Clamps
Great for exploring sensory play, these nipple clamps are fully adjustable and have tiered metal chains for additional weight to create the perfect level of pinch for your nipples.
Now you’ve got the low-down on what’s on the market for couples sex toys, you can begin the journey with your partner to find the right fit for mutually explosive pleasure. If you really want the crème de la crème of couple's sex toys to make your love life as playful as it is pleasurable, check out MysteryVibe’s award-winning couples vibrators. Not only are they recommended by sex and relationship therapists, but doctors too!
