How To Discuss Your Desires And Kinks

No matter how long you and your partner have been together, having "the talk" can seem intimidating. It may never feel like the right time, so your fantasies . . . well, they stay fantasies. Here's how to discuss your desires and kinks in a way that will bring you closer.

Published Jun 11 2020 • 7 min read

No matter how long you and your partner have been together, having "the talk" can seem intimidating. It may never feel like the right time or the right words might not come to mind, so your fantasies . . . well, they stay fantasies.

In reality, withholding your desires from your partner is only holding your relationship back and decreasing your intimacy. When you share your cravings with your partner, you expand your sensual horizons and foster a safe space where you can be completely and utterly honest with one another. You're not just spicing up your time together in the bedroom, you're developing a deeper connection with one another. 

How to Talk to Your Partner About Desires, Fantasies, Kinks, and More

Step One: Set the Mood

Make sure the evening is free of distractions, whether that means making a few extra phone calls during your nine to five or putting the kids to bed early. Once the night is free of any potential distractions, begin setting the mood: light a few candles, set out your best lingerie, maybe pull out a few toys and your favorite lube. Make sure your bedroom is romance-ready.

Before things get too hot and heavy, start talking to your partner about various desires, fantasies, or kinks you've been craving to try with one another. You don't have to blurt it out, but the discussion should begin while the night is still young. You could say something along the lines of...

  • "Hey honey, I keep having this fantasy of..."
  • "I really enjoy these moments together, and I've been wondering if there was anything you've been interested in trying out lately. Personally, I'd really like to..."
  • "Babe, I saw this really interesting position that I know you would be irresistible in..." 
  • "I love the way you caress me, but I was wondering if you could try..."

Remember: Nothing is offensive about giving your partner a few pointers, either. Your guidance only makes them a more knowledgeable partner and you a more pleasured lover. Many partners actually find it quite a turn-on if you grab their hand and help them reach your G-spot!

Step Two: Lead by Example

Watch Porn Together

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Sometimes it may take a demonstration for your partner to begin warming up to the idea or to fully understand the steps you would like to take together. Watching porn together is a wonderful way to build intimacy and learn more about each other's sexual interests. 

Remember: No matter how long you've been together, partners may be a bit reluctant to watch porn together due to shyness or worrying about what the other person may think. Create a space in which your partner feels comfortable. Avoid kink-shaming. 

If watching porn together feels like too big of a leap, you may want to consider picking up a book on Kama Sutra, the Sanskrit guide to sexual techniques and practices that have long withstood the test of time.  

Do A Little Sensual Shopping Together

Doing a little sensual shopping together is another great way to show your partner what you'd like to try. You can either browse for accessories online while laying in bed with each other or simply send them screenshots of vibrators that catch your eye. 

MysteryVibe has a wonderful selection of smart, customizable vibrators for him and her with water-based lubes and massage oils that will bring your pleasure to the next level. Additionally, we offer various guides and examples that can help you and your partner begin thinking outside of the box. 

Remember: It's important to make sure both partners feel engaged and included when using a vibrator. It can do wonders for your sex life and should be an addition to your pleasure, not a distraction from it. Allow them to play around with the vibrator and don't be afraid to guide your partner on how to use it!

Get Inspired

If you or your partner have both expressed a desire to try something new but you're not quite sure what, sensual playing cards or dice are an exciting and spontaneous way to spice things up in the bedroom. 

The Crescendo Playbook is perfect for couples who are feeling bold, daring, and adventurous. The playcards highlight various positions and techniques to give a try while using Crescendo, the smart, bendable vibrator.

Talk Dirty to Me

Don't be afraid to mix in a little dirty talk, either. It may seem awkward at first, but once you open the floodgates, it'll become natural, almost irresistible. Catch them off guard and get them craving more. 

Remember: Nobody wants to hear a novel while they're going down on you. While dirty talk is a great way to build tension and set the mood during foreplay, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Keep it simple, keep it sweet, and keep it sexy. Trying out new pet names can be a lot of fun and very erotic for lovers, too!

Step Three: Listen, Listen, Listen

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Be Respectful and Mindful of Your Partner

Nothing is sexier than consent. If your partner has fears or doubts about what you would like to try out in the bedroom, hear them out. Don't shun them or dismiss their questions, as this will only create distrust and hurt.

As you open up to your partner about your various interests, they will feel more comfortable about sharing their fantasies, too. Show your partner the same respect you expect of them and listen to what they'd like to try, as well. Chances are, this will open you up to a whole new world of pleasure that may have never even crossed your mind before!

Do Your Research

Safety is key. When engaging in a new sexual practice together, especially something like hot wax or BDSM, it's important to make sure you know what you're doing. Be sure to read up on various guides, precautions, and stories from real couples who are well-versed in what you would like to try.

Remember: Porn can be a wonderful tool for exploring a fantasy, but it's not always the most practical approach to learning the reality of what you would like to try. At the end of the day, porn stars are actors and professional pornography is created with an entire team of directors, editors, and videographers. 

Have a Safe Word

A safe word is a great way to establish your boundaries and ensure that everything about to occur between you and your partner is 100% consensual, especially if you're giving anything that involves domination and submission a try for the first time. It's a code word, often something entirely random and unrelated to sex, that lets you or your partner know to stop.

Remember: Your safe word should be something unambiguous, yet somewhat bizarre so that it catches your attention. It should be a word that would never find its way into the bedroom otherwise so that it really sticks out. 

Step Four: Take Action

After you've opened up to each other about your desires, done your homework, and established your comfort zones, you're ready to engage in the action. 

Take it Slow

As tempting as it is to dive right into the action, slow and steady wins the race. There's no need to rush to the finish line, so take your time. Explore one another, test the waters and really give each other the opportunity to enjoy this new activity together. 

And Remember...

  • Consent is key. Period. 
  • Safety is just as important as consent. Do not engage in anything risqué that either of you are unsure about. 
  • Respect, respect, respect. In order to accentuate your sex life, you have to be able to communicate. If you want your partner to listen to your desires, show them the same courtesy. Intimacy is a two-way street. 
  • Do your research together.
  • Porn, Karma Sutra, sensual playing cards, and shopping for sex toys are fantastic for getting inspiration and becoming more educated lovers.
  • No matter how wet you get, you can't go wrong with lube. It guarantees a smooth glide for both penetration and handy action that feels great for both lovers. 
  • A vibrator should add to your pleasure, never distract from it. You can even show your partner how to use it on you!

Most importantly: Have fun. When you discuss your desires, fantasies, and kinks with your partner, you're not just spicing up the bedroom. Together, it gives you the opportunity to create a much deeper sense of intimacy and trust with each other. As you begin sharing your desires, so will they. This will keep your precious time together fun, interesting, and exciting! After all, you never know what you might learn about your lover. 

Mystery Vibe specializes in smart, customizable vibrators that will redefine everything you thought you knew about sex and vibrators. Plus, we offer guides and inspiration that'll keep you and your partner on the edge of the bed, begging for more.

For tips, tricks, techniques, and more, head on over to our blog.  


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Tony, US
Verified Customer
Great product, really innovative and easy to use! I love using it by myself and also used it with my partner and it worked very well!
Rachel, GB
Verified Customer
Kudos to the company for developing a product that can be used solo and by couples. My first experience was solo. Getting the Tenuto on does take some getting used to, but I quickly learned the best way. I used the phone app and I was amazed at the stimulation in so many different areas. I let the app cycle through the different patterns and used different intensities to get an idea of what was possible. My body responded as one might expect and time to climax was much sooner than I expected. Another indication of a great product. Looking forward to trying this with my partner.
rf, US
Verified Customer
Was a great experience, start to finish, and highly recommend for anyone else looking to spice things up a little.
Mohsen, GB
Verified Customer
App is straight forward and offers some interesting options and functionality. I have received multiple updates from the company since I installed it. I am sure it will continue to improve over time but for now, it seems stable and reliable which is important to me.
Pauline, GB
Verified Customer
Excellent customer service. Quality products.
Victor, US
Verified Customer
Can't say enough about how great this company and product are. Don't walk, run to their website and super charge your sex life!
Pamela, US
Verified Customer
Crescendo, such great product. It is very comfy to use and it fits perfectly. I recommend it 100%
Patricia, ES
Verified Customer
Endless possibilities! Imagination and sexual wellness combined!
Sigi, MX
Verified Customer
Excellent … says it all.
Andy, GB
Verified Customer
Sensational, as advertised.
Gerald, US
Verified Customer
The best vibrator I've come across to this day.
Kenneth, US
Verified Customer
Each folding part has it's own motor inside of it, so there aren't any dead-zones. The whole thing feels very alive. There's also a perfect amount of stickiness to the moving parts. A+
Earl, US
Verified Customer
The product is fantastic....very durable and original.
Timothy, US
Verified Customer
Amazing, forward-thinking tech that puts pleasure and communication first. Really impressed to see how technology can improve rather than replace intimacy. Just so much fun to use.
Robbins, US
Verified Customer
I bought a product that did not work initially, and the customer support did an amazing job of giving directions on how to use it properly. It took a bit of time to figure out all the functions but now it's become an essential part of our bedroom. I'd 100% buy and support this company again.
Charles, US
Verified Customer
Tenuto gave me the best hardon ever! Gave the application to the missus and she drove me wild by edging and edging till I simply needed to snatch the telephone back and detonate!
Shirley, US
Verified Customer
A product like no other. Its a piece of art that can deliver a great deal of fun while also helping with health issues. Beautifully designed, its the Rolls Royce of vibrators.
Ben, GB
Verified Customer
I was very impressed with the response time in regards to my reporting a problem. In addition, it was escalated to the CTO which in my world is to the very top. We had a meaningful dialogue via email and am things got sorted out. It seems to have been user error and not machine or software issue. Terrific company.
Tom, US
Verified Customer
Amazing, forward-thinking tech that puts people and communication first. Really impressed to see how technology can improve rather than replace intimacy.
Michael, US
Verified Customer
Amazing :D It is very different from all the other products out there and I was really surprised how good it is. Definitely worth the money.
Sandra, GB
Verified Customer
I've worn the Tenuto and experienced fabulous climaxes. It might turn out to be a daily use thing for me.
Scott, US
Verified Customer
I received the shipment very quickly and the packaging/boxing was excellent. I had an issue and wrote to them. This company's customer service is fantastic. Quick response, immediate resolution of my issue, and courteous as well. I haven't experienced this kind of customer-oriented service very often for a long time. Kudos to the company and their awesome customer service team!
Vera, US
Verified Customer
Extraordinary application! Truly like the straightforwardness, excellence in effortlessness for sure
Tony, US
Verified Customer
As an engineer, I am extremely impressed with the True craftsmanship in all their products.
Allen, US
Verified Customer
It's very cool and the app makes it smooth for my partner to use it on me whenever wherever he want.
Humberto, VE
Verified Customer
Fantastic company for sexual health, great products. I have found that this company seems to carefully listen to their customers and thoughtfully responds to their emails. Keep up the good work
Hannah, GB
Verified Customer
Love Crescendo - so bendy and versatile and application makes it significantly increasingly adjustable!
Susan, US
Verified Customer
Good quality item and swift delivery. Wife seems pleased to say the least.
Kieran, GB
Verified Customer
I received the Crescendo as a gift, and let me tell you ... I bless that person every day! The product taught me about self-care way more than I ever expected! It is versatile and allows you to explore different angles to suit your body exactly!
Masha, PT
Verified Customer
Crescendo works well as a prostate massager. The lock feature enables you to set it and forget it. It's flexible and vibrates from one end to the other. I like the length and thickness. I recommend it to friends.
Dennis, US
Verified Customer
I cherished the product at any rate and the application makes it significantly cooler!
Martha, US
Verified Customer
High-quality product that delivers on its promises!
Michael, US
Verified Customer
I received Tenuto 2 as gift and was skeptical to use at first. Once I got over the fear and used it, I really noticed a difference and now use it everytime I have sex. 11/10
Conor, GB
Verified Customer
I love the devices, thank you so much
Karma, BE
Verified Customer
The company has been fantastic in communicating with me and helping solve any issues I had. They are very responsive
Seatt, US
Verified Customer
Excellent products, i got myself a Crescendo and I am absolutely astonished for how fabulous it is. And then the staff at Mystery Vibe is absolutely kind and efficient!
Miss, IT
Verified Customer
Kudos to the company for developing a product for ED that can be used solo and with your partner. My first experience was solo. Getting the Tenuto on does take some getting used to, but I quickly learned the best way. I was amazed at the stimulation in so many different areas. My body responded as one might expect and time it took me to climax was much sooner than I expected. Another indication of a great product. Looking forward to trying this with my partner.
Scott, US
Verified Customer
I contacted customer service with a health question I had related to my new purchase. They responded very quickly and addressed answered all my questions. In this day and age this type of customer service is rarely seen I am extremely satisfied and I fully recommend this company to anyone thinking about making a purchase
Steve, US
Verified Customer
I purchased the Tenuto (the first one) about 2 years ago. It worked fine so recently when the Tenuto 2 came out I got that one. This version of Tenuto has the same dimensions but more powerful vibrations, so I was very pleased. There is no other device like it on the market and I am glad to have the new one. Many thanks!
Ken, CA
Verified Customer
Great customer service! I would recommend this company just on the customer service experience. Their products seem very well made, but the one my husband purchased was too small. The issue was resolved with the company in a very timely manner.
KT, US
Verified Customer
Great App, this is substantially better than all the other ones I have tried before! Especially love the ability to live control each vibration motor.
Ruth, US
Verified Customer
Finally got my Tenuto, felt like a kid on xmas day. Lovely packaging and instruction sheet about device. I have tried it for 'fit' and after a bit of reorganising my bits it looks and feels comfortable. Wow is my first word for my first time trying it...Very good feelings....! :-)
Richard, GB
Verified Customer
I can honestly say that in a fairly short period of time using the Tenuto it is a legitimate product that has exceeded my expectations. Great Job! The sensation each individual motor provides is one of the unique features that I feel separates it from other male devices. Until now I have been disappointed with the other products for men and questioned if a similar stimulation was achievable in men like it is with women.
Cooley, US
Verified Customer
Unreal product and service. Best.
James, GB
Verified Customer
Love the application. Bring back recollections of my game controllers!
Melissa, US
Verified Customer
I love the products. Always a pleasure to use them, the quality, the look and feel, design - everything is top level!
Varya, AR
Verified Customer
The crescendo 2 is such a great device for my wife...these products are extremely well made and designed to help with intimacy and I hope that anyone who tries the products has success and many years of use..thank you
John, US
Verified Customer
What a wonderful company. Not only are their products great, their customer service goes above and beyond. My husband bought me the Crescendo almost 2 years ago. It's one of the best vibrators I have ever used. Love using it with my husband so much, I ordered the Tenuto as a Christmas gift for him. I recently lost the charging pad for my Crescendo. I couldn't find a replacement on the website. So I emailed the company to buy a replacement. They responded the same day and are sending me a new charger free of charge. Best ever!
Tracy , US
Verified Customer
I bought crescendo 2 - highly recommend, high quality product, great customer service and delivery on time! I have also bought poco, can't wait to try!
Billie, GB
Verified Customer
Thank you for such an amazing product. I'm super happy with the Tenuto and it is really comfortable to use. I was intrigued about creating a unique vibration pattern for myself and love discovering new patterns using the app!
Noah, US
Verified Customer
Everything about the company is upfront and professional. Customer service is exceptional. It's clear they care about the experiences people have with their products, between the quality of the products themselves to the very helpful information on the website and included with the products to customer support, this company shines.
Dominique, US
Verified Customer
Amazing product, looks like it was custom designed to fit my body. Very comfortable, perfect features, adjustable to my specific needs. Very convenient, you can take it anywhere! Is very discreet, ppl honestly will ask if is a remote control. So you can keep your privacy. Battery lasts very long so I couldn't ne more happier. Helps me a lot to improve my confidence. Highly recommended
Tayanra, GB
Verified Customer
I reached out after my delivery was 2 days past and was saddened to learn my order was lost in route, but Customer Support made quick work of righting the situation! Literally took less than 5 minutes to send the email and they were exceedingly prompt in getting back to me. Replacement order sent free of charge. Great service.
Cosemu, US
Verified Customer
Received a fast response on my first post and changed it to excellent, seems there was a mix up.
kulig, US
Verified Customer
As with most organizations, what makes a "difference" is the customer service. These people excel at customer service!. They go the"extra mile"! They take the extra step! They follow up in a timely fashion! And they "Make it Right"! I have not seen this type of response in other companies.
Roemer, US
Verified Customer
Apparently, there was a glitch in the shipping software which caused the holdup of the order processing unbeknownst to the company. The company was very apologetic and resolved immediately by their CEO! Five stars for their prompt resolution.
Thomas, US
Verified Customer
Really positive experience from my product. Also the only email newsletter I actually read. Such an important message to explore.
David, GB
Verified Customer
The product is more than expected. Recommended for all!
DH, US
Verified Customer
I always have a hard time getting my knee to relax when it's flared up and wrapping the Crescendo around my knee with a gentle vibration has really helped. And having the app makes using it so much easier so I can just lie back and adjust the power remotely. This is a total life saver, especially in the winter.
Ximen, US
Verified Customer
Surprised at the how powerful the vibrations are for something so compact and slick! Love it!
Tim, GB
Verified Customer
Crescendo is a great product and a great company. My wife and I love Crescendo and have derived many hours of pleasure from it. It is one of my wife's favorites! Recently our Crescendo stopped working. The customer service team were so kind and helpful with getting our Crescendo replaced. In spite of the fact that it had been over 2 years since our purchase they stood behind their product and quickly and easily got us a replacement. Aside from just being great with the replacement there was a real warmth and appreciation of us as customers during the process.
Jeremy, US
Verified Customer
Excellent product, we love it so much. Thanks
Anna, GB
Verified Customer
Simply the best tool to rebuild love. High-quality product that delivers on its promises!
Noelia, US
Verified Customer
This is a reputable company producing high quality products. If you have an interest, don't hesitate trying their products.
MB, US
Verified Customer
Wow. This was a one of a kind experience. I highly recommend using these products.
Sherif, US
Verified Customer
After learning an earlier model first generation unit no longer had a charger I needed to replace my model. They simply gave me a free new device of my choosing with sincere apologies they couldn't assist my initial request since they no longer make that product. There was nothing technically wrong with my first unit, just I had lost the charger. The new package arrived and again the style, design, functionality, feel, and power is incredible. Many thanks! You are the best at this game!
CS, US
Verified Customer
Excellent customer service! They were extremely responsive and took care of my issue the same day!
Larry, US
Verified Customer