6 Must-Try Sex Toys For Gay Men

From prostate massagers that’ll hit your P-spot like a pro to vibrating cock rings that intensify sensations, these sex toys for gay men are game-changers that should be on your bucket list

Published Jun 07 2024 7 min read

Ready to add some serious spice to your sex life? There’s a fantastic range of sex toys designed specifically for gay men that can take your orgasms to the next level. Even the most sexually satisfied man knows the value of variety, especially when it comes to pleasure. From prostate massagers that’ll hit your P-spot like a pro to vibrating cock rings that’ll put your orgasm control to the test, these sex toys for gay men are game-changers that should be on your list. Luckily for you, we’ve done the homework—so buckle up men, and get ready to meet your new favorite playthings!   

Prostate massagers 

Starting off, let's talk about prostate massagers. Often referred to as the male G-spot, the prostate is a small gland inside the rectum that can produce intense pleasure when stimulated.

Prostate massagers are sex toys designed to specifically target the prostate. They come in various sizes, shapes, and materials to cater to different comfort levels. Some prostate massagers are butt plugs that are ergonomically shaped to put pressure on the prostate when inserted. Other prostate massagers come with motors that vibrate, which are more commonly known as prostate vibrators. Prostate vibrators can provide unparalleled prostate stimulation, milking the prostate better than even the most dexterous and practiced fingers. Prostate massage doesn’t just feel good; it has proven health benefits towards boosting prostate health. If you’ve never experienced the benefits of a buzzworthy prostate orgasm, it’s time to get acquainted, and we have just the vibrators.

Experience an orgasm bomb while improving your prostate health with the award-winning prostate vibrator Molto. And speaking of fingers, Molto was designed by urologists to mimic their fingers to help provide pain relief from prostate issues like prostatitis and inflammation.

The design makes sense since the P-spot is located at an angle in the anus, so a straight shooter might miss (no pun intended). Molto’s bendable neck hits your P-spot every time. Whether you want high-intensity anal stimulation or a gentle prostate massage, Molto’s powerful, targeted stimulation delivers. Perfect for beginners and seasoned pros alike, Molto’s ultra-slim, ergonomic design, and flared base make it easy to hold and explore erogenous zones and intensify sensations.

If you prefer a more fulfilling fit, the bendable vibrator Crescendo 2 is your vibe. While still slimmer than some prostate vibrators, Crescendo 2’s power is in its adaptable design and 6 fully customizable motors along its length. With Crescendo 2’s multi-shape flexibility, you’re never locked into one size or one shape. It bends into so many ways it’s like having multiple sex toys in one. Consider all the erogenous zones and new sensations to unlock with 6 powerful motors arousing everything they touch. With the smart app, you can even control which vibes and patterns go to each individual motor and even choreograph a symphony of sensations by creating a new pattern.

The other advantageous benefit of bendability is with Crescendo 2, and you can stimulate multiple erogenous zones at the same time to really intensify your pleasure. Think: perineum and prostate stimulation. A male blended orgasm is an idea to get behind! When engaging in prostate or anal play, remember to play responsibly and bend Crescendo 2 at one end since it does not have a flared base. Discover anal orgasm heaven with the bendable Crescendo 2.

Cock rings 

Next up is the cock ring. This simple but effective sex toy can significantly enhance male sexual pleasure. Designed to be worn around the base of the penis, a cock ring restricts blood flow to the penis, keeping you harder for longer, intensifying sensations, and boosting your stamina. Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, cock rings are all about enhancing your performance and pleasure. Cock rings come in various materials and sizes, from silicone to leather and Velcro, so there’s no shortage of options. Many cock rings also come equipped with motors. These male vibrators or vibrating cock rings provide additional stimulation, which many men rave about.

One standout option is the award-winning vibrating cock ring Tenuto 2. Get harder, longer-lasting erections with the wearable male vibrator that’s clinically proven to combat erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety. Talk about good vibes... Tenuto 2’s vibrations not only feel fantastic but help keep your erections, performance, and confidence up.

This vibrator for men accomplishes all of this with its two-part approach to erections. It has 4 strategically placed motors that provide powerful stimulation to key erogenous zones of the penis and perineum, which increase blood flow, arousal, and sensation. Part two is in the snug yet flexible fit that stretches to various penis sizes and comfortably restricts blood to the penis for firmer, longer-lasting erections.

For a more compact experience, Tenuto Mini is your go-to. This smaller version packs all the punch of the Tenuto 2 but in a more discreet package. It's ideal for those who want the benefits of a vibrating cock ring without the bulk. Tenuto Mini enhances and maintains your pleasure and performance, ensuring you're always ready for action, no matter where your adventures take you.

Whether you're new to cock rings or a seasoned pro, Tenuto 2 and Tenuto Mini are excellent choices to explore. Get Tenuto 2 on and get ready to enjoy explosive orgasms that will leave you reeling.

Anal beads 

Anal beads are another category of sex toys that are well worth exploring. These connected spheres are designed to be inserted into the anus and slowly pulled out to stimulate the nerve-rich anal canal. If you're looking to add a new dimension to your pleasure, anal beads are a must-try.

Anal beads come in various sizes, materials, and lengths to suit different comfort levels and experience. Beginners might start with smaller, silicone beads that are gentle and flexible, while those more seasoned in anal play might opt for larger, firmer beads that provide a fuller sensation. The beauty of anal beads lies in their simplicity and the build-up of sensation as you slide them in and out, either solo or with a partner, making them a versatile addition to your sex life.

The key to maximizing pleasure with anal beads is all in the timing. Slowly inserting the beads builds up an incredible sense of anticipation, and when you’re nearing orgasm, gently pulling them out can create an explosive finish. This method of playing can enhance the feeling of release and intensify your climax, making it a fan favorite for many.


For those looking for a more realistic experience, dildos designed for anal play are another must-try. These phallic-shaped sex toys come in various shapes, sizes, colors, and materials to suit various preferences.

Using a dildo for anal play has some unique benefits, like the physical sensations of being stretched and filled, which many gay men enjoy. Dildos can help you discover what kind of pressure and angles feel best, making you more in tune with your own pleasure.

Dildos are fantastic additions for enhancing your solo sessions. Some even come with a suction cup base for hands-free play. The suction cup base on many models allows for hands-free fun, so you can experiment with different positions and movements, making the experience even more realistic and enjoyable. Whether you're new to anal play or an experienced enthusiast, there's a dildo to satisfy your needs.

Butt plugs 

Butt plugs are another category of sex toys that many gay men find enjoyable, and they are a favorite among gay men for a good reason. Designed to be inserted into the anus and left in place, which can provide a feeling of fullness that many find incredibly pleasurable. Butt plugs come in all sizes and shapes, and some with fancy features. Whether you’re a newbie starting with something small and tapered or a pro looking for something bigger and bolder, there’s a plug for you. And if you’re feeling extra adventurous, try a vibrating butt plug or a rotating one for an extra sensational session.

Using a butt plug isn’t just about the immediate pleasure of being stretched and filled; they are also great prep for anal sex, helping to relax and stretch the muscles of your anus. Plus, wearing one during foreplay can crank up your arousal, making the main event even hotter.


Finally, let's not forget about male masturbators. These sex toys are designed to stimulate the penis and amplify your masturbation experience.

There are several types of male masturbators to choose from, such as eggs, masturbation sleeves, and automatic masturbator machines. Eggs, for example, are small, stretchy sex toys that fit over the head of your penis while you masturbate to provide incredible sensations.

Masturbation sleeves offer a more extended experience, enveloping the entire penis, and often come with textured interiors for added sensation. Masturbators can simulate the experience of oral or anal sex, with some models being manual and others automatic, providing a hands-free masturbation experience.


Turning your bedroom into the ultimate pleasure playground is easy with these incredible sex toys for gay men. From prostate massagers that hit all the right spots to vibrating cock rings and butt plugs that make every session orgasmic, the options are endless, which means you’ll never have a dull moment again. While there are many gay sex toy options available, not all win awards and have the doctor stamp of approval to help with a variety of life circumstances. So, if you’re ready to have the ultimate sensory experience, MysteryVibe’s male vibrators are the next threshold of pleasure.  

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